Envy among women in corporate environments can create rivalry and hinder progress. Recognizing envy as a natural emotion and promoting support, mentorship, and open dialogue can help foster a more empowering and collaborative workplace for everyone.?
Key Takeaways
- Envy among women in corporate environments can create rivalry and hinder progress, but it is a natural emotion.
- Understanding the impact of envy is crucial for fostering a supportive and collaborative workplace.
- Strategies for overcoming envy include fostering a supportive mindset, building networks and mentorships, and encouraging open dialogue.
- By shifting from competition to collaboration, women can empower each other to thrive professionally.
- Addressing envy can pave the way for a more inclusive and successful future for women in the corporate world.
Introduction
Have you ever felt envy hold you back at work? In today’s corporate environment, women face numerous challenges on their path to success, and one significant hurdle we encounter is envy among our female peers. At the same time, while competition can be healthy and drive individuals to excel, envy can hinder your progress and create a toxic work culture.
In this article, I will explore the impact of envy in the corporate world. I will also provide strategies for navigating and overcoming envy and jealousy. By understanding the root causes of envy and adopting a supportive mindset, we can foster a more empowering environment that enables everyone to thrive.
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The Envy Paradox
When you felt envy at work, did you ever wonder if it means something is wrong with you? If so, you are not alone. Envy is a normal emotion, but it is often seen as a flaw, which is why most people avoid talking about it.
Envy shows up when you wish you had something another person has. Jealousy is more about fearing that something you value will be taken away. Although the words get used interchangeably, what matters is the feeling of desire they both share.
What you want might be greater visibility, a better network, a promotion, or just a nicer office. The real challenge with envy is how we interpret and react to it. In competitive workplaces, envy can become overwhelming, especially when resources are limited. It is important to recognize that envy is human and affects everyone. For women, the pressure to hide emotions labeled as “unfavorable” can make envy even more difficult to address openly.
Talking about envy and its impact is the first step toward creating healthier, more supportive work environments.
The Impact of Envy on Women’s Progress in the Corporate World
Envy, in particular, can have harmful effects on women’s progress in the corporate world.
I have watched women share damaging stories to block colleagues from promotions.
Comments like
- “Are you sure this is the right outfit to present today?”
- “Remember last time? I hope you don’t make the same mistake again.”
- “Is this all you do nowadays?” and
- “He must really like you to have given you this office.”
are just a few examples. You get the point, and you might have your own examples from personal experience, whether as a listener or a speaker.
When envy goes unrecognized, it breeds sabotage and rivalry, damaging collaboration and creating a hostile work environment. Some of us become caught in comparison and self-doubt, which drags down productivity and career growth. For others, the fear of being targeted by envy leads us to avoid new opportunities or risks. This constant need to fend off negativity and bad intentions is exhausting and holds us back both personally and professionally.
Strategies for Navigating Envy
It all starts by understanding that there is nothing wrong with you for feeling envious or jealous.
At times, I even believe that our system has been designed to foster envy and, in turn, rivalry. As long as we are standing alone, we have very few chances to change the system to benefit us as women. Fostering a “lack mindset” ensures we “fight” for that one position.
Shifting, however, towards an abundance (growth) mindset means that you are also shifting your own emotional understanding from “she is going to take what I want” to “because of her, I see clearly now what I want, and she can help me to get there.” Your envy is an expression of desire, and it is up to you to speak about it in a way that is beneficial to you or, at the very least, in a way that will avoid creating obstacles for others.
3 Ways to Overcome Envy:
- Foster a Supportive Mindset
- Creating a culture of support and collaboration is essential for mitigating envy. You should focus on uplifting and celebrating each other’s achievements rather than comparing yourselves negatively. By shifting the mindset from competition to cooperation, you can build stronger relationships and create a more empowering work environment.
- Build Networks and Mentorships
- Developing strong networks and mentorship relationships can help you overcome envy. Seeking guidance from experienced professionals and connecting with like-minded individuals can provide valuable insights, support, and opportunities for growth. Companies should foster mentorship programs within organizations, in which you can gain access to mentors who will guide and support you on your career.
- Encourage Open Dialogue
- Creating spaces for open dialogue about envy can help normalize the discussion and reduce its negative impact. By acknowledging envy as a shared experience and discussing coping strategies, we can develop healthier ways of dealing with our emotions. Establishing support groups or organizing workshops focused on emotional intelligence and self-esteem can foster friendship (for some, even sisterhood) and empower women to navigate envy effectively.
Key Takeaways
Envy is a complex emotion hindering women’s progress in the corporate environment. However, by understanding its impact and implementing strategies to address it, we can navigate envy and create a more supportive and empowering workplace culture. It is crucial for us to:
- shift our mindset from competition to collaboration,
- build strong networks, and
- encourage open dialogue.
By doing so, women can foster an environment where everyone can thrive and achieve their professional goals. By acknowledging and addressing the challenges of envy, we can pave the way for a more inclusive and successful future for women in the corporate world.
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