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Hi, I’m Kinga Mnich, and here’s the question I’ve pondered a lot:

What does it mean to be an empowered multi-passionate?

  • You thrive with clarity and vision, excited by all of your ideas, but knowing which to focus on (for now)
  • You use your many gifts to build multiple sources of income, building bridges, making connections and solving problems as few others can
  • You’re confident in your nature, knowing how to embrace what other people call “scattered” and harnessing that energy to create incredible momentum
  • And, you enjoy every minute of it

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Being multi-passionates means that we take the scenic route most of the time – and we experience so much more of life on the scenic route! But, if you compare the scenic route to the direct path that others take, it can feel like they’ve achieved more faster.

But they’re not driving a compact car across three continents and working in prisons in South Africa, are they? (And they aren’t doing any of the fascinating things you’ve been doing either!

Believe me – as much as you suffer FOMO looking at them, they suffer it even more looking at you.

As a multi-passionate myself, it’s taken me a long time to feel fully confident and accept, love and enjoy my multi-passionate nature. It’s taken me even longer to find a balance between supportive structures and the freedom that we multi-passionates crave. Because, like many of us, my “lack of focus” had always been considered a “problem” – by teachers, parents, society. I actually had a teacher who told me “you can’t go to high school – you can’t focus enough. And you’ll never get to university.”

As a multi-passionate myself, it’s taken me a long time to feel fully confident and accept, love and enjoy my multi-passionate nature.

Being multi-passionates means that we take the scenic route most of the time – and we experience so much more of life on the scenic route! But, if you compare the scenic route to the direct path that others take, it can feel like they’ve achieved more faster.

But they’re not driving a compact car across three continents and working in prisons in South Africa, are they? (And they aren’t doing any of the fascinating things you’ve been doing either!

Believe me – as much as you suffer FOMO looking at them, they suffer it even more looking at you.

As a multi-passionate myself, it’s taken me a long time to feel fully confident and accept, love and enjoy my multi-passionate nature. It’s taken me even longer to find a balance between supportive structures and the freedom that we multi-passionates crave. Because, like many of us, my “lack of focus” had always been considered a “problem” – by teachers, parents, society. I actually had a teacher who told me “you can’t go to high school – you can’t focus enough. And you’ll never get to university.”

That anger fueled so many accomplishments

For me, as I said, I became very, very angry. I felt I needed to prove my worth, to ‘show’ those teachers who had tried to tell me I wasn’t smart enough that I could do anything (and everything) I set my mind to.

That anger fueled so many accomplishments (you can find the list here if you’re curious), but it was also destructive. It robbed me of my empathy and made me mean.

I hadn’t realized this until, in my early 20s, I was working as a mediator and facilitator at the Anne Frank Museum in Frankfort. My job was to work with teens to facilitate topics around racism, national socialism, fascism and the holocaust.

 We would bring in right-wing German radicals into the same room with Jewish and Arab teens and help them realize what they had in common (a lot). But, I was not patient. If someone wasn’t as smart and quick as I was, I’d get in their faces with “Why don’t you get it?!”

Being straightforward has always been my strength, but it wasn’t ideal in that context! So one of the social workers took me aside one day and told me, point blank “You are unfriendly, unkind, and extremely intelligent. But if you can’t learn to work with people, we will let you go.” She meant this from a place of kindness, and I knew it. It was the wakeup call I needed to realize that my armor of anger wasn’t serving me, or anyone else.

 

what was that armor covering up?

The problem we face isn’t having a million different interests. (Others might see that as a problem and tell us it’s a problem, but really, it’s a superpower)

– Kinga Mnich

The feeling like I wasn’t enough. Because even though I rebelled against the teachers who’d said I wouldn’t be able to accomplish anything, parts of their stories still stuck. 

  • I wasn’t smart enough.
  • I wasn’t focused enough.
  • I wasn’t good enough.
  • I wasn’t anything enough.

And that’s a pattern I’ve seen in many of us multi-passionate entrepreneurs.

change is possible.

When other people’s stories get to us, our own emotional reactions rise up in defense and can eventually limit us.

I did my PhD. in studying how emotions work, why we interact the way we do, and even more so how we use emotions to create our identity  – and 40 professors told me that my thesis topic was impossible. (I travelled to South Africa to study the emotions of men in prison – but that’s another story!)

What I’ve found is that for multi-passionates like us, learning to manage our emotions is actually the key to achieving great things – and feeling like we are finally enough (and not ‘too much’ either!). 

Because when we get to the root of our emotional reactions, we stop self-sabotaging ourselves and we are finally free to explore our full potentials.



Let’s celebrate all of our crazy ideas, embrace the chaos and genius of who we are, so we can change the world.

The Emotions we tend to struggle with most:

  • Jealousy
  • Never feeling satisfied and content
  • Habitual overwhelm / anxiety or guilt around not doing ‘enough’
  • Fear of abandonment
  • Anger towards authority figures
  • Lack of confidence & insecurity

Associated self-sabotaging behaviors: 

  • Damaging relationships with put-downs and faint praise instead of celebrating other people’s wins
  • Constantly chasing the next exciting thing (so you never finish what you start and never have the chance to succeed)
  • You overschedule so you can’t focus and don’t have the mental space to truly create
  • People-pleasing that robs you of time and energy for your own projects
  • Instead of celebrating your strengths, you constantly wonder why you aren’t as successful as others

The negative emotions tend to stem from the root cause of “not enoughness” - and that leads to another hurdle we construct for ourselves: Comparison.

Even though not-enoughness can drive us to achieve so much, we’re always comparing ourselves to other people – whether they’re our friends or our icons (why am I not as successful as Steve Jobs?!). We see our peers achieving so much, checking all of the boxes of success – marriage, house, kids, career, travel, writing books, founding companies – and feel like we are falling behind.

My work is to help you master your emotions, stop self-sabotaging behaviors, unpack the stories that don’t serve you, build your confidence and find clarity through discovering where your interests intersect – so you can work and live expansively, joyfully, and successfully, while building the career, business and life you want.

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